Narcissism expresses itself differently in women and men. For women, narcissism is feminism, equalityism, the total submersion into her narrative. For men, narcissism is hedonism and becoming obsessed with one's own feelings and thoughts. Men escape into themselves to avoid the world, women escape into a narrative to avoid the world.
Both men and women end up reifying their own feelings, in narcissism, and then trying to live inside of this reification. Maybe its shit either way, maybe narcissism sucks whether in a man oe a woman. But I think it is far worse in women than in men. Because narrative building and radical enforced equality are insane. At least a man escaping into his own inner world of feelings and thoughts is still based on reality, and not necessarily falsifying.